Short answer:
👏 Stop 👏Lying 👏To 👏Yo’self!

Loves, lying to yourself- even with the tiniest things will screw you over. When you’re flip-floppy and mal-aligned with yourself, you’ll misread vital intuitive hits. And you’ll confuse TF outta the laws that are trying to deliver to you your 🦄 How do I know? I’ve lived like this most of my life! 🤦🏽‍♀️Below find: Actual things I’ve said/experienced. The 𝐥𝐢𝐞 I told myself. What was 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧, & 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝. 

🚩 “Boy, you like to drink a lot!”
𝐋𝐢𝐞: Oh, it’s nothing. I like to party too! This is normal for our age.
𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲: I rationalized flags on date 2 because he was hot, charming, & interested
𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭: Tumultuous 5-year relationship with an alcoholic who cheated on and left me. 

🚩 *He grabbed my hand from across the table. I recoiled immediately + pulled my entire arm back.*
𝐋𝐢𝐞: Maybe I’m being too sensitive. He’s got that masculine energy I love!
𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲: I didn’t understand my body wisdom + language. It was telling me this guy was not safe for me.
𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭: Survived verbal + emotional abuse most days for 10 months. Oh, and he dumped me by text. 

🚩 “To be honest, it’s moving a little fast for me.”
𝐋𝐢𝐞: This is all I ever wanted. It scary, but isn’t any new relationship? Stop second-guessing, + enjoy this!
𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲: I ignored the call for SLOW.
𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭: 2 months in, he did a 180. I asked about where he was with us. He ghosted. 

You know the drill, too: You see, hear, feel, EXPERIENCE a thing. It feels off, + you discount it. Right there, at the point of choice is where you have the power to shift what’s next in your reality. 

It’s time to practice radical honesty. Especially if you are concerned with wasting your time. That’s it. Stick with trusting yourself no matter what your brain + feelings holler.

Your intuition does not yell. The faster you say no thank you to potential, the faster you meet the one who is aligned with celebrating and loving the fuck out of you NOW.

Loving you, and knowing YOU GOT THIS. 💋